No you are talking to people you don't know sometimes it helps to have people around who don't know you but are willing to help i have been a part of unknow community for about 5 years and every time i had a problem or i just needed to express my self i turnd to this web site not to say i don't have friends out side the web but there opinions are tide in with there felings so you never realy get the truth so think of this as just another way to get yourself out there